T5 How do you deal with difficult clients?

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How do you as a digitizer or embroiderer deal with difficult clients?

Do you feel the money is worth the headache? Meaning as long as they pay you will just stay quiet and do what you are told?

Do you respond in kind and sometimes say or do things in hindsight you wish you had not?

Do you try to educate the client and try to come up with some common ground?

Do you fire them? Because your own piece of mind is worth more than dealing with them.

Please provide an example... good or bad... we can all learn from each other.

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migdigitizing wrote:
There are certain limitations for doing business , If he is paying you , you have to do your best to satisfy him .

I disagree. You have to TRY to satisfy the client ... I agree with that.. but some clients do not know what they don't know... so you cannot help them! sorry

2 clients just this week.. and it is only Wed. wanted us to match EXACTLY lettering sewn in 60wt thread but they only use 40wt. how the heck is that possible?? I want you to recreate this lettering made with an ink pen but you can only use a magic marker? yeah.... ok.. .not going to happen

I want this design to be 5 inches wide on a fleece blanket..... but the lettering is only 3mm tall... ON FLEECE?? who is training these sales reps?

Anyone? WHY does it seem that people who sell embroidery dont seem to learn the limitations of embroidery? All they are doing as far as I think, is making themselves look bad when they have to go back to the client with changes. NO? they do not know WE exist as a digitizer, no matter whom they use. THEY are the ones that end up looking less than to their clients.

Modern Embroidery Designer
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could still be embroidery/digitizing related if my Dad and I stopped at a client or two along the way.. introduce him to this magical world! lol

back on point... is it THAT difficult for either the end user OR the distributor/embroiderer to look at the art at the size that is needed?

I mean if you want a left chest at 3.75 inches wide.. and you look at the art at 3.75 inches wide... to me... I don't think you need ANY embroidery experience at ALL to see the issue with many of the logos out there. no one has EVER seen .5mm satin lettering!

and what about the advertising agencies that actually are paid good money to create logos.. WHAT ?? they do not think embroidery is part of the equation?

The client may be difficult.. but some of this is because of conditions out of their control.

Modern Embroidery Designer
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Ohh Good Sometime clients makes us for frustrated.
They often do not like to pay high prices but the way they make changes every now and then does not justify their low prices.

I mostly try to be nice with them and try to make changes when they needed but frankly this is not cool for any digitizer.

Matt Conner
Designer with Quality Punch
www.qualitypunch.com

Robert Young wrote:
2 clients just this week.. and it is only Wed. wanted us to match EXACTLY lettering sewn in 60wt thread but they only use 40wt. how the heck is that possible?? I want you to recreate this lettering made with an ink pen but you can only use a magic marker? yeah.... ok.. .not going to happen

I want this design to be 5 inches wide on a fleece blanket..... but the lettering is only 3mm tall... ON FLEECE?? who is training these sales reps?

Anyone? WHY does it seem that people who sell embroidery dont seem to learn the limitations of embroidery? All they are doing as far as I think, is making themselves look bad when they have to go back to the client with changes. NO? they do not know WE exist as a digitizer, no matter whom they use. THEY are the ones that end up looking less than to their clients.

i'd tell them that if they want it exact, they're going to have to put out the $ for the 60 weight thread....and fleece-boy i'd probably tell him no. it depends on the design and if there are other options and how much "artistic license" they will allow...but if they didn't go for other options, i would say "ok...i'lll do the 3mm lettering for fleece, but since you didn't take my advice there will be an editing fee when you want me to change it because you didn't take my advice that it would SUCK."

i don't think the comment about embroiderers knowing the limitations is fair. i have a lot of customers that send just a couple of designs a year because they're doing stuff for family members, or they're just starting up, or for whatever reason...they don't get it. not yet. i love helping these people out...for the same reason i love helping out people on these boards. i remember, 20.5 years ago, when i was brand new and depended on people like us for advice. i tried to do one of my first designs for my mother (an embroiderer of 100 years who talked me into digitizing). it was the letters SP in a box. i edited that design to death, and she stitched it out probably 30 times. it was awful....and we still laugh about it. i still have it...digitized 5/19/97. i'd post a picture but its too embarassing! :D

digitizing...since 1996. dixiedesigns.net

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Ha! I get where you are coming from! But I still think if you are going to sell something you should know the medium. just sayin! or at least be open to learning , I guess that is my issue, being open to learning and taking professional advice.

that being said I just referred two people to you on this forum today. I am not here to ask for work, just to lend my 28 yrs of limited embroidery / digitizing knowledge and I am still learning!

Modern Embroidery Designer
volant-tech.com
volantfineart.com

Robert Young wrote:
and what about the advertising agencies that actually are paid good money to create logos.. WHAT ?? they do not think embroidery is part of the equation?

tax deductible roadtrip...even better! :D

i don't know anything about advertising agencies and the logos they create...and i would imagine that they don't know anything about digitizing or embroidery either. it sure would be a nice bonus if they did! but i just consider it part of my job. explaining what will work and what won't and give options. i had to redo a bad logo a customer got somewhere else yesterday. there was a larger version and a smaller version. the larger one was fine. the smaller one, they did the tagline in running stitch lettering. ICK! my recommendations:

"so, for the smaller version they have a couple of choices

live with it as an illegible running stitch lettering

i can do it as a smaller satin stitch lettering and it will still be illegible AND you'll get thread breaks

do the top lettering smaller and keep the taglines the same size as the larger one

don't use a smaller version, or

remove the tagline and lose the "INC." on the second line of text on the smaller version so i can make that line a little larger, but they can keep the rest. "

i'd much rather give recommendations for a design that will work up front, than do a design that i know will look or stitch like hell.

digitizing...since 1996. dixiedesigns.net

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I Totally agree with giving advice up front... but more often than not they come back.. WELL! I just saw a hat at WalMart that had lettering that small.... why can YOU not do that??

WE can,, YOU cannot... or more precisely WILL NOT... you WILL NOT use thinner threads or needles for parts, you WILL NOT slow the machine down at certain parts of the design. etc. WILL NOT use different backing to avoid puckering on a shirt.. WILL not use solvy.... WILL NOT allow the letters to be larger so they can touch .. .instead you insist on 3mm tall letters with a trim between each and every letter... meaning with the lock stitches at that size letter there are blobs of thread.

It is a matter of education I believe.... where can anyone go to learn?? It is not their fault , they just have not been taught in the medium

They are only being difficult because they believe it is super simple and we or the embroiderer are the people that do not know what we are doing. I understand.

Modern Embroidery Designer
volant-tech.com
volantfineart.com

Robert Young wrote:
Ha! I get where you are coming from! But I still think if you are going to sell something you should know the medium. just sayin! or at least be open to learning , I guess that is my issue, being open to learning and taking professional advice.

that being said I just referred two people to you on this forum today. I am not here to ask for work, just to lend my 28 yrs of limited embroidery / digitizing knowledge and I am still learning!

yeah...you've gotta start somewhere! i think one of the first big lessons for embroiderer to learn is that great digitizing can make or break a company. not only that, but it can make what is supposed to be a fun adventure into a new business a major headache. if they're just learning embroidery, and have a terrible design, they'll stitch it out, it will look like hell, and they'll have a hard time figuring out what they're doing wrong....when it may not be their fault at all. its hard enough to learn embroidery...much less trying to do it was bad designs. that's why my motto is 'not even the best embroiderer can make a bad design look good'

a customer of mine in KY that i've been working with since 1997 told me a story yesterday. a guy brought in a horribly embroidered shirt. not only was the digitizing awful, but they didn't bother trimming it up and left a huge thing of backing on the inside. he laughed at it and asked where it had come from. his customer told him that he had it done at the embroidery shop on the other side of town. that's now closed.

appreciate the referrals! you heading out for another vacation? :D

digitizing...since 1996. dixiedesigns.net

i usually tell my customers what will or will not work and offer recommendations/suggestions before i start a design so there are no surprises when they get the design. i'm a big fan of getting it right the first time.

i've only had to "fire" two customers in 20 years. one was because their check bounced every time. the other was because i did a great jacket back design, but they would pick the design to death and kept wanting to make changes to the design that would make it worse. like, removing satin stitch detailing to have the fabric show through instead, etc. i did it for a while until it was obvious that the design was going to end up looking awful and he wasn't getting happier. i just finally told him that i was sorry, that i wasn't able to make him happy and didn't charge him for the design. it was a load off!

digitizing...since 1996. dixiedesigns.net

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Yes, sometimes we just Assume the client has years of experience... not cool. (and you know about that word!) More often than not they just Wanted the Sale so took the order without understanding what is possible.

That, OR the client is showing them a sample that is embroidered with thinner threads, etc, yet the guy now holding the order wont use thinner thread.

Planning to fly up to Louisville in a week or so and meet up with my Dad where he and I will drive down to Miami to see a car show.. then drive back up while stopping every 10 miles to see another family member, HA! Not quite that bad but you get the idea.

Modern Embroidery Designer
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There are certain limitations for doing business , If he is paying you , you have to do your best to satisfy him . Yeah i remember i did ask my customer to go somewhere else in 2009 , it was a simple logo and he was keep asking for changes to change the width of the outline . then adding some shadows but in the end he came over chat and start abusing where i had to stop him and gently ask to create his account somewhere else . After that he felt sorry for it but never said and its been 7 years now .. getting order on a daily basis .

I have done all of the above.

Fire them, call them out on their difficulty, discussed the situation politely. Charged more money. And in some cases backed off a bit shut up just did it to get them out the door

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Client sends in 12 designs with very specific size instructions. We do those. ALL have come back with different size instructions now. I do the changes all at no charge but do provide some attitude... I admit.

Why the attitude the client wants to know.

Well , you were VERY specific on the instructions....apparently without realizing the sizes??? You told us to follow your instructions EXACTLY. we did that.

She pushes back again... OK

well lets talk about we do 12 designs for you... following your instructions only to have to retouch ALL of them because of something on your end.

OR how about you are behind on your term payments to us... to the tune of you have not paid us for work done in August... just sayin... not really happy to help you when you have 5 invoices that are past net 30

why don't you just pay your bills on time and we would be "nicer and more professional" as you request??

otherwise just go away... stiff some other company IF you can find terms nowadays??

thanks for the venting.

what would you do?

Modern Embroidery Designer
volant-tech.com
volantfineart.com

Robert Young wrote:
Client sends in 12 designs with very specific size instructions. We do those. ALL have come back with different size instructions now. I do the changes all at no charge but do provide some attitude... I admit.

Why the attitude the client wants to know.

Well , you were VERY specific on the instructions....apparently without realizing the sizes??? You told us to follow your instructions EXACTLY. we did that.

She pushes back again... OK

well lets talk about we do 12 designs for you... following your instructions only to have to retouch ALL of them because of something on your end.

OR how about you are behind on your term payments to us... to the tune of you have not paid us for work done in August... just sayin... not really happy to help you when you have 5 invoices that are past net 30

why don't you just pay your bills on time and we would be "nicer and more professional" as you request??

otherwise just go away... stiff some other company IF you can find terms nowadays??

thanks for the venting.

what would you do?

I have a few clients who have done that exact thing and I always start by referencing any PO/artwork Email notations etc. And if the artwork was done as specified then any edits would be paid for.

As for unpaid clients... Like most apparel vendors I have a policy that if someone is 30 days overdue on a bill I wont run any more orders without either paying for the overdue order or in some cases requiring them to pay for the past due as well as in full upfront on the new order. Being as polite as possible but stating things as policy.

I do work really hard to not take it personally but occasionally i have needed to use the sickeningly polite passive aggressive method.

"Unfortunately we cannot compete on price...
If you are happy with your current vendor's pricing and quality then I encourage you to continue to go with them as you are getting a fantastic deal and I will go ahead and move these quotes into canceled..."

(who cancels a quote).

And even issuing client/policy update emails with policies stated in writing.

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As an embroiderer/ screen printer I feel most of my customers are good. 99% of my customers are online and I rarely have any issues. What I don't like are some of the requests I get from local people. Most of the businesses are very small so the orders are small, contain a mix of items (different fabrics/hats & flats), have poor or no artwork, want text added to their artwork, don't want to pay up front, don't want to pay for artwork and want have their order processed the way their last embroiderer did it. I used to spend a lot of time providing quotes but now I usually come up with some reason why I won't provide a quote. For me the online orders are more profitable and much less stressful and it isn't worth the hassle of dealing with local orders. There are exceptions and I appreciate the local customers I have but I don't try to gain more local customers.

That's CRAZY about the 60wt thread! I love 60 wt thread. It has definitely improved the look of many designs I've embroidered and just having a few thread shades in stock will handle most logos. I'm guessing that M***'s high shipping/handling fees scare a lot of people away when they just need a few spools but everyone should stock up when they can.